Sunday, June 7, 2009

Bold Move

I'm on my way to work the other day and I'm just sitting on the train listening to my ipod. Of course I'm looking at everyone on the train since there's really nothing else to do. I look to my left and at the other end of the seat is this guy.

Now I'm checking him out and seeing if he's someone I would talk to lol. He had on this burgundy button down, dark blue jeans, burgundy nike boots and JEWELRY!!! Diamond (at least I Think they were lol) earrings, diamond ring and this nice watch. Now everyone knows I LOVE MEN IN JEWELRY. I don't quite know what it is about it, but it is just so sexy and a major turn on to me.

So I keep looking at him and I notice he keeps looking at me also. I wanted him to smile, come over or signal for me or something, but he didn't. All I kept thinking was damn if he was closer I would've said something to him. I had a seat next to me and across from me and he had a seat next to him. I kept thinking maybe I should go sit next to him, but that would've just been a thirsty move. So I let it go, especially since the train got crowded. I figured if we get off at the same stop, I'll think about saying something to him lol.

Guess what happens when I get to my stop.....................HE GETS OFF TOO!!!!!!!!! lmao I was hype. So I purposely make it so that I'm walking close to him lol. Now we're walking to the N/Q train and he stops after a while. So I walk up a lil more and stop. I'm nervous as hell now and I'm going back and forth on if I should say something to him. Then I'm like what the hell am I going to say to get his attention.

I finally muster up the courage and I walk a lil closer to him. He's not looking in my direction so I had to get his attention. This is how the convo goes:

Me: "Excuse me can I ask you a question?"
Him: Yea
Me: Are you talking to anyone right now?
Him: Yea I am
Me: Oh ok...That's too bad
Him: What's your name?
Me: Shay. And you are?
Him: Cliff
Me: Ok. Are you and the girl serious?
Him: Umm not really
Me: How long yall been talking?
Him: A month
Me: Thats not serious

Then he laughs and we talk some more. We tell eachother a lil about one another. He tells me I'm bold and noone has ever come up to him like that before. I tell him I seen him on the train and I wanted to say something but didn't. He's like how he seen me too and he kept looking at me but the guy next to me kept looking at him so he figured I was with the guy. I'm like eww noo lol. My train comes and I'm like give me a call sometime and I gave him my number and got on the train.

I was so proud of myself because I'm a punk. But I wanted to do this because I didn't want to think about what could've been. HE hasn't called and I don't know if he will but I'm just happy I made that effort. I wonder if I could always be this bold lol


  1. gone head then girl! ♥

  2. I'm glad for you that you made the first move. Women always say that men don't approach them, the majority of the time we don't know how you all would feel about it and we don't like rejection.

  3. @Shawn I agree. I get upset when i hear females say that they would never go up to a man...I personally don't see anything wrong with it This is a new day and age and sometimes you just have to go after what you want if you don't want to regret it later on

  4. shit lucky you! you were always the shyt one out of all of us. I couldnt have done it. I wouldve been shittin in my pants

  5. lol girl I was nervous as hell. I didn't know how he would respond...but he has yet to call so wateva lol

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