Sunday, December 20, 2009

Married Man

Good news...I finally got a new laptop so I am back on my blogging full time (woohoo). The story of this new laptop will come soon.

First thing first, I have to introduce Married Man. One day I was walking home and chatting away on the phone with my sister and this car is driving along side me and speaking to me and we are cracking jokes. I reach my house and as I am about to go inside, he says wait can he have a minute so I come back downstairs and we speak a bit and exchange numbers.

A couple days later he hits me up and says he wants to see me and he's going to come and pick me up from the train station. When I reach, I call him but he doesn't pick up his phone so I go home. I end up hanging out with friends and we go to a diner. He calls me and sees that I am upset and wants to come see me and we speak a lil and he tells me he really likes me and all this other "game". I proceed to ask him questions about his life because of his age (31). He informs me that he is married with 2 daughters but he is separated from his wife. Here's the crazy part......they still live together. RED FLAG!!!!!

Against my better judgement I continue to talk to this man, but that's as far as it went. One night we make plans to go to the movies and when the time was nearing for him to come pick me up, he is nowhere to be found. He wasn't responding to my texts or phone calls. I got stood up smh.

I didn't hear from him for another 3-4days and then one day he texts me and of course I have an attitude and I tell him I don't want to deal with him anymore because he played himself. He then goes on to say that he was on his way to me that night but he got pulled over by the police and because he had a warrant, he was arrested. He says the whole time he was locked up he kept thinking about me and he knew I would be really upset and all this other crap. I continue to give him the cold shoulder but one night he offers to pick me up from work and I agreed to it.

He shows up (almost 2hrs late) and we are driving around and wind up at a lil soul food restaurant. We talk about different things and then we proceed to go home.

It was bad enough that the whole time he kept trying to kiss me and touch me and I let it be known he was in the dog house. We reach my block and parks the car and we continue to talk and he proceeds to attempt to kiss me even though I kept turning my face away. Long story short he tries to have sex with me in the car, in front of my house. I had to use strength to push him away and ask him to stop. Honestly, I feared that he wouldn't and it would've turned ugly but luckily it didn't. I got out the car and went inside my house. I haven't spoken to him since (minus the time he texted me asking if everything was ok and I responded I'm fine).

Guess it worked out for the best because I had no business with a married man in the first place right.


  1. Thank goodness it ended before it even got started.... he started out on the wrong foot, you should have never agreed to do shit with his ass after he left you at the train station.... and the cops pulled him over???? Hell no. lol

  2. lmfao i kno...i shoulda ran the other way once i found out he was married with 2 kids actually lol