I went over to his place after work last night and at first I felt very awkward because it was the first time we saw each other since we broke up. He was all laid up in bed and I was just standing there watching the tv and texting and waiting for him to give me something to sleep in. He finally gave me a t-shirt and I got in the bed. We automatically started messing around n such and things sort of felt normal again lol.
So after we are just laying there watching tv and from the side of my eye I see something dark on the bed and I kind of sit up to look and its a huge bed bug!!!! I don't really know what to do, but then I see a baby one crawling right by it so I sit up. It starts to come closer to me so I say omg there's something crawling on the bed and I think it's a spider (I was kind of too embarrassed to say the truth). I'm like kill it or swat it off but he's like he doesn't see it. But I refused to lay back down. Then finally I swat the bed myself and cautiously lay back down. By this time the huge bedbug is moving and is now crawling on the wall. I keep l0oking at it discreetly because I was scared it would come my way but it didn't thank god. So sad to say I didn't have a good night rest last night because of my nervousness.
Now I know they only come out in the dark so I always make him leave the tv on so that his room is not pitch black when we sleep but I wake up at 5am and I don't see anything. This dummy turned the tv off and now I'm in panic mode. I'm trying to turn the tv on but the remote isn't working so I keep fidgeting until I was finally able to get it to work and I turned it right back on.
But I'm talking to my sis and I'm telling her about this and she's like I should tell him to get a spray but I'm too embarrassed for him to even mention the fact that he has bedbugs. I keep wondering if he knows he has it and he's ok with it or if he's completely clueless. I don't know what to do? How would you break it to your significant other that they have insect problems and its causing you to not be comfortable in their living domains (without hurting their feelings of course)???? Help me out please