So Stuy's birthday passed recently (more like last month lol) and as the female in his life I was suppose to do something with him so I suggested dinner. Then he responds that if we're only doing dinner then we should just do dinner with his family. Whoaaa buddy lol. I told him I had to get back at him with that one...I mean seriously was I ready to meet the fam?? Eventually I agreed and said ok we can all do dinner and I asked what restaurant were we going to. At first he was like he doesn't know. The day before his birthday he tells me that his mom is going to cook and we will be having dinner at his parents house. Inside I'm freaking out like what did I just get myself into lol.
The day of his bday I put on this nice long black n white dress (my short dresses would've been inappropriate i think lol) and I head over to his grandmother's house to go see him. He greets me at the door and tells me how beautiful I look (I was very hype...its nice to get compliments lol). We hang out and go get some food. I try and pay for his food and he kept refusing and putting my money away, which was nice but I really wanted to pay. Back at his house we end up doing us (if you know what I mean lol) and then we just lay in the bed in the nude and talk. Then the inevitable happens....his grandmother comes home and just opens his door. I freaked!!!! His body was sort of covering my lower body so it was really just my chest exposed so I just put my arm over my chest and cover my eyes and keep repeating "Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god" and he screams out "grandma, you don't knock" and she is in shock and just closes the door.
Now I'm like okay well now I'm definitely not going to dinner. Like I just experienced a very embarrassing moment and then for me to go and sit at the dinner table like nothing happened...hell no. For all I know this lady will just keep thinking "look at this little whore". He suggested I come to his parent's house and if I do feel uncomfy I can leave and he'll tell everyone that something came up so I agreed.
That walk to his parents' house was like walking to my doom, I was beyond nervous. When we get there, he introduces me to everyone and his sister asks why we took so long and this dummy gonna say its shay's fault...I wanted to die. His grandmother was sitting right there and I know she automatically thought about what she had walked into.
But all in all the night went well and his family was pretty cool and it seemed like they shared everything with eachother which was nice. After that night he asked me how would I feel about us becoming official and I said that would be nice so guys....I now have a boyfriend lol.